There is no other way to change someone’s personality if they do not have a will to change. We may not force them because it would make them angry and do not feel accepted in their environment alone and look elsewhere. If we want to be a nice person, we must understand our speaker and we must not offend him. If we can not refrain from communicating with other people, then we fail. Personal improvement books can help us to be a nice person. We could take one book for us to learn and we understand its contents. If we get a good impression on the first page, we can continue to another page. If we do not find interest in the book, we do not need to continue because we do it with forced and insincere. Any change that we feel quite dependent on our hearts. We will not be convenient for others if we can not do it wholeheartedly.
We also can not judge a person from one point of view because it is not fair. If we look at the fish in the way they climb trees, then we can never think if the fish is an animal that is great. This is a simple example that we can apply in our lives. If we judge a person because we feel know him but we never asked directly about their lives, then we knowingly. A nice person will never judge others from the standpoint of him but also take into account the other person’s perspective. So, if you have little desire to know how you are, you can read one of the books Personal improvement and if there is a shortage in you, you can fix it. One more thing, you can also rely on self-help books to improve yourself.